Males are seen by society as the stronger gender who need no loving or protecting, and people who will always be good regardless, but this is not true. Zambian Men have valid needs just like Zambian women do, and it’s your responsibility as his woman to attend to most of them, at least. But how do you satisfy needs you know nothing about?
Well, here’s a list of some of the things men want in a relationship.
TO BE LOVED THE WAY THEY ARE
Love can make people do anything, even the ones they’re most uncomfortable with. Your man has probably tried to impress you all the while you’ve been together, but the truth is that deep down, he wishes you’d just take him the way he is, and he doesn’t have to impress you. It’s not a bad thing to reassure your man that you love him regardless of looks or status; it goes a long way in boosting his confidence.
Zambian Men are also humans, and they need support in every way you can imagine. When he goes broke financially, he deep-down expects you to assist in whatever way you can, especially if you can. When he is suffering emotional trauma or pressure from maybe work, he also needs some love and attention.
TO BE PAMPERED
Women love to be pampered, and so do men. Men appreciate it when you get them gifts, cook their favourite meal, take them out to the movies, etc. This is one of the many things that make them human, you know?
When a man loves you, he expects the same in return. No Zambian man is happy with just a fling when he is very much interested in you; he doesn’t want to just have a moment in the sheet with you, he also needs some loving and a deeper relationship.
It doesn’t matter how playful a man gets, if he respects you, he also expects the same. No man is happy being undermined or disrespected by his own woman. In fact, he even expects you to defend him in public.
A FUN RELATIONSHIP
No matter how serious one is, there’s always that one person with whom they’re totally loose and free. Your man appreciates a bit of fun and craziness from you now and then.